i attended company law tutorial today...
i like the tutor...her personality...we din touch much on the details bout the subject yet as this is the first week...
not to mention...i migrate into her class because ppl spread about the accuracy of her tips for the exam too...but i really like her in person...i like her thinking...
she shares kinda alot of them with us...
now that we are adults...we should know in reality...that we cant force ppl to work our way...we hav to learn how to compromise too...to compromise doesnt mean to support every single thing ppl said...learn to support ppl correct points and giv up our stubborn one...learn to accept the fact that we are wrong sometimes...
she mentions about the increment of divorce cases in our country...its normal to hav them everyday...to me...there is no such thing such as living together forever after...that is only a fairytale in our childhood...lolz...tutor said no husband and wife who dun quarrel...if there is such couple, their relationship is fake...its happy to reunify the arguing for divorce couples...but whn they come to a stage beyond repairment...its better for them to separate...no point having both of them pulling long faces whenever they met each other at home...
i have learn to understand that sometimes cannot means cannot...stubbornly staying in a broken relationship is pointless...not only u suffer...but also your partner...
of course that doesnt means u should get your viewpoint too greyish in this zone...no harm giving a try...i guess...lolz...
besides that...she mentioned that dun care too much on the exam marks...not to mean that u should be carefree and doesnt even bother to study for your exam...your parents send u to uni to get the degree as a step stone for your future...of course...if u can score...why dun u go for it...but if u really cant...dun get too upset with that and give up...successful ppl doesnt necessary hav to be those who can score very well marks during their school time...but sometimes not to neglect the fact the intelligence do help in some way...she saw many lawyers who are very intelligent but they fail to succeed in the court because they do not know the way to handle the cases...
others...i dun really remember dy...but besides all these...there r other things i realize myself...
everyone have their own secrets...but whn there r out in the open...as in the one whom u get in secret from suddenly knows that...hw will u react...lolz...actually smtimes its really difficult to stuck in between...not knowing what to do...in the past...i often refers this to varifying different route...it make sense whn u stand in other ppl position too...what if that is you....what will u do...will u do the same? but...it do make u feel better whn they make effort to explain...not caring whether the explanation is true anot... so...sometimes u hav to understand them and compromise too... i had got lost before in trustworthiness...actually i had to admit i am a sensitive person...a word can make me think alot...sometimes ppl jz get me confuse on my own principle...i got so lost thn i get emo for a period... but one thing...i have got to learn and i am learning... to let go..."fang kai dian"...
u will live your life more happily...seriously...whats the point of getting yourself so emo and the ppl who cares about u get miserable because of u...rite?
"everyone have different personalities...if everyone is the same, we will be like a robot...", tutor.
thus, learn to know that we cant get ppl to behave or work the way we want them to...learn to compromise...its better to have a friend than an enemy...and get yourself headache hating this and that when u can use that space of your mind to enjoy other events/stuffs...
and last of all...
sorry for posting such a long-winded post...thks for bearing with me...
lolz (laugh-out-loud)...
^^
after what happened last week...i hav new principles in life ;p
we r still young...learn till the day we die...experiences let us grow...
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